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Revida Putri : Solusi Ampuh Menyembuhkan Rasa Sakit Akibat Dikhianati

” Saya Diam bukan berarti Diam “

mending jujur walau menyakitkan daripada sembunyi sembunyi tapi ketahuan

” I can see you in the dark Place even the light on the whole world is off “

“Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s what unites us. The trick is not to let it destroy your trust in others when that happens. Don’t let them take that from you.” ― Sherrilyn Kenyon, Invincible

Dilansir dari womanitely.com, meskipun memaafkan orang yang baru mengkhianati kita itu bukan perkara mudah tapi kita harus bisa mencari cara untuk menghilangkan perasaan negatif. Apa tujuannya? Tujuannya adalah agar kita bisa lebih mengembangkan emosi dan menjadi orang yang dewasa serta bijak di kemudian hari. Untuk sembuh dari rasa sakit akibat dikhianati, Anda bisa menggunakan empat cara ini.

• Terima Emosi Anda

  Perasaan dikhianati bisa memunculkan berbagai macam emosi negatif. Ada rasa bingung, marah, sedih, dan muak. Semuanya berkumpul jadi satu. Tapi semakin Anda menolak semua emosi itu, bisa jadi emosi itu semakin mengkungkung Anda. Terima dan hadapi perasaan negatif tersebut. Dengan demikian, Anda bisa punya ruang untuk mencari akar masalah dan segera mencari solusinya. Setidaknya Anda sudah bisa lebih tahu dan sadar mana orang yang bisa Anda percaya dan mana yang tidak.

• Sampaikan Rasa Sakit Anda

  Jika Anda tak mau dianggap kalah, sampaikan rasa sakit dan kekecewaan Anda terhadap orang yang mengkhianati Anda. Anda hanya perlu memaparkan betapa sakitnya perasaan Anda ketika dikhianati. Namun jangan sampai Anda terbawa emosi dan malah membuat suasana semakin keruh. Anda cukup menjelaskan bahwa Anda sudah tak bisa lagi mempercayai orang yang mengkhianati Anda. Buat orang tersebut merasa bertanggung jawab atas tindakan yang ia lakukan kepada Anda.

• Lakukan Hal-Hal yang Anda Sukai

  Ubahlah rasa sakit dan emosi negatif Anda dengan emosi dan hal-hal positif. Alihkan perhatian Anda dari hal-hal negatif ke ha-hal yang lebih positif. Saatnya untuk membuka jalan baru yang lebih optimis ke depan. Saatnya untuk membuktikan bahwa Anda bukanlah orang yang lemah. Anda bisa tetap menjadi seseorang yang bahagia dan mendapatkan kehidupan yang Anda inginkan meskipun Anda baru saja dilukai oleh orang terdekat Anda.

• Belajar untuk Memaafkan

  “It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend (William Blake)”. Yang membuat sebuah pengkhianatan terasa begitu menyakitkan adalah karena kita biasanya harus berhadapan dan berhubungan langsung dengan orang yang sangat dekat dengan kita. Dilukai oleh orang terdekat rasanya jauh lebih menyakitkan daripada dilukai oleh musuh. Tetapi Anda perlu belajar untuk memaafkan. Toh, tak ada gunanya juga memendam emosi negatif dalam diri Anda sendiri. Justru dengan memaafkan, Anda akan menjadi seseorang yang lebih kuat lagi.

Untuk sembuh dari rasa sakit dan terluka akibat dikhianati, Anda perlu memiliki tekad yang kuat untuk kembali melanjutkan hidup. Masa lalu pun tak akan bisa diulang atau diperbaiki, kecuali jika Anda terus optimis untuk melangkah ke depan untuk kehidupan Anda yang lebih baik.

Lick it! This new WTF app lets men practise oral sex by licking their phone screen. Seriously.

Straight out of the crazy files comes Lick It, a new app designed to help your guy become a pro at, er, going down on you. For realz.

The app offers various movements that promise to strengthen his tongue – get this – bylicking his phone screen.

Solusisex : The Vitamin You Need So Your Penis Can Perform

Lacking enough of the sunshine vitamin might snuff out the lights on your bedroom game.  New research from Italy suggests that low levels of vitamin D may increase your risk of erectile dysfunction.

10 underrated sex moves to bring back to the bedroom!
	10 underrated sex moves to bring back to the bedroom! OK we get it, when you think of those wild OMG sex moments, kissing and holding hands might not jump straight into your head. But sometimes the best things in life really are the simplest and while we're constantly on the search for a new thrill in bed, we tend to forget those tried and trusted turn-ons. Of course it's never a bad idea to get experimental - working through theKama Sutra or trying out some Anastasia Steele approved moves can be a lot of fun - but there's no need to dismiss these classic sex moves. Trust us - going back to bedroom basics is just what you need to spice up your sex life.

Solusisex : Reasons Why Having The Same Partner Forever Does Wonders For Your Sex Life

© Thinkstock In a recent interview with InStyle magazine, Cameron Diaz voiced her thoughts on monogamy. "I don’t know if anyone is really naturally monogamous. We all have the same instincts as animals. But we live in a society where it’s been ingrained in us to do these things,” she says. Her words merely echo a society that doesn't always fully embrace the idea of committed relationshipsand monogamy. Social media alone makes it 100x harder to avoid temptation and accusations of infidelity. Let's not even discuss 'the bit on the side' who use these platforms to glorify their homewrecking status and those cheating guys that get exposed as a result. Ugh, the worst! With everything considered, it's no wonder monogamy isn't exactly seen as the 'coolest' thing in our culture. However, we want you to know that being with one person for the rest of your life actually has its fair share of perks. Don't believe us? Oh, you will... © Pinterest via Flickr 1. The risk of STIs is decreased According to the CDC, "A reliable way to avoid transmission of STIs is to abstain from oral, vaginal, andanal sex or to be in a long-term, mutually monogamous relationship with an uninfected partner." The key words to keep in mind: "mutually monogamous". Even after you two have sworn to nix other partners, make sure you BOTH get tested on a regular basis. It can never hurt to receive a clean bill of health. 2. Condoms aren't as important Yes, sex does feel better without them! We admit it. But before you get too carried away, don't forget everything we said above. It's also important to take other measures to prevent unwanted pregnancies. While we're all for pleasure, we like it to be done responsibly. 3. You'll never have to do the walk of shame again © Tumblr via Hungover Afternoons We're cringing remembering mornings we'd creep into the house making sure no one saw us in yesterday's clothes. Yes, we've been bad, very bad... But it doesn't mean we want everyone to know it! 4. You can get as nasty as you very well please... every single time Even the good girls like to get down and dirty from time to time. Now imagine being granted the liberty to get as filthy as your little heart desires every time you hit the sack. The freedom to let it all hang out is unmatched when in a committed relationship. Trust us. So by all means, let that inner sex pot run wild! 5. You'll master each other's body This is one of the best things. There will be no more guessing what gets him off and vice versa. When you've been together for years, you'll come to know the exact coordinates of his most sensitive erogenous zones. No map or GPS necessary. Now go on, explore and conquer. 6. You can show him your 'O' face Yes you have one. EVERYONE has one. That's when you know the orgasm was earth-shattering good. The type that made you curl up and cry because you couldn't believe how good it was. You know, the kind that was so intense you booked a session with your therapist right after. With a lifelong partner, you won't have to be afraid to let out your inner gremlin when reaching the big O. Why? Because he's obligated to love you unconditionally anyway. Yup, gremlin hybrid and all. 7. You can experiment with no judgment Now's the time to try all those weird and dirty fetishes you've been dreaming of. You'll be together forever, so why not? Bedroom behaviour will never grow stale once you both toss inhibition to the wind and live out your wildest fantasies. You'll be on that roller coaster together, so you're pretty much exempt from judgement. 8. You don't have to worry about awkward one night stands One of the best perks of being in a committed relationship is never having to worry about those awkward one night stands ever again. The thought of waking up in the morning and having him see the REAL you, then running for the hills? We get chills at the thought. After being with your lover for years, they'll literally see and smell (hello, morning breath!) you at your worst. A one night stand just wouldn't understand, nor would you want him to. 9. Say bye bye to dry spells There will be no more nights at home alone cuddling next to a glass of wine and your fave sex toy. You'll have a living, breathing, caressing person to take care of all your needs. It's truly one of the greatest joys of being in a relationship. You can finally kiss those booty calls goodbye. 10. The emotional aspect makes sex hotter We women are emotional beings, so it's pretty much obvious we'd enjoy sex a lot more with someone we deeply care about. It truly takes it to another level when we know our man shares the love. Being able to have that for the rest of our lives? Bliss.